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How to Handle Rejection

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Got this on Yahoo! and couldn’t resist it. A lot of times we face rejection – we’re being rejected by the opposite sex. But how do we handle it? You’ve been eyeing her for a long time and you feel it’s high time you told her your intentions, and then you walked up to her, in your best suit or jeans, with your best smile and all. You open up to her and tell her of your undying love for her, only to get a NO for an answer. Wew! You feel, ‘But I’m handsome and I know I’m right for her…’ You probably met online and he’s been telling you how beautiful you are. He’s not seen you, but merely judging from your looks in your picture on Facebook! He’s told you how he’d love to meet and make you his wife and arranged for you to meet at Tastees Fried Chicken (TFC). You agreed to the meeting and put on your best make-up from Black Opal and your best gown from collectibles. You entered the restaurant, greeted him with a smile, talked briefly, and then all of a sudden after 20min...

Right and Wrong Reasons to Get Married

If you are considering getting married, make sure you are getting married for the right reason. Here's a listing of both the right and wrong reasons to get married. Wrong Reasons to Get Married - Want to be free from parents. - To have sex. - To ease loneliness. - To be happy. - To be an adult. - Because of a pregnancy. - He or she loves you. - To save or help someone. - Because you want a baby. - For money. - Because all your friends are married. - You've always wanted a fancy wedding. - Out of fear that no one else will want to marry you. - For immigration purposes. Right Reasons to Get Married - You are in love with one another. - A desire to share your life with another. - To have a lifetime companion. - Realistic expectations. - Willingness to help one another fulfil their own needs and dreams.

I'm Still Thinking...

I was just wondering...Why can't a lady walk up to a guy that she loves so so dearly and ask him out? Why do ladies have to love and die in silence when all they need to do is just walk up to the one and say 'I love you'? Oh, so a man is the head. Apologies to those that see me as a feminist (Phemnahs - www.phemnahs.blogspot.com ; Bayo Atunwa). I'm not one. I'm just asking out of curiousity. I'm just thinking. What's wrong in a lady being the head of a family (they do it in Ghana)? Just thinking. (I choose not to be that anyway. I want my husband to be the man and not me. I love being pampered, spoilt and I can't get that if I'm the man - Just just thinking). Why should the man be the provider or bread winner, as the case may be? Why should it be the lady who has to please the in-laws and it is the other way round for the guys? I'm just thinking...Share your thoughts and comments.

Let's think...

Ouch! It's really been a busy week. It all started last week Thursday, August 21, when I was busy preparing for Tayo and Daniel's engagement, slated for Friday, August 22. I got to the office very late that day. Thank God my boss was not in town, if not, it would have been 'heaven'. And then on Friday, I didn't go to the office at all... And then this week, I've been busy trying to catch up on all the days I didn't work. So, the work load's been much since Monday. Opps...Thank God it's Friday... We had the engagement in Surulere. It was 'sizzling'. Fun, to say the least. I, really, am happy for Temitayo Ponmile and Daniel Peters...They were both 'beautiful' that day. Hmm. Eyin iyawo o ni mo eni o..Amin. The wedding comes up September 6, 2008. See ya there (LOL). I'm gonna be besting Tayo and so, I'd be very very busy. Try and see me now if u need anything ooo. (Laughs). Ok. Let's think. Love is great and beautiful. You...

Honeymoon Getaways

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Spoil yourselves! Get away from the ever busy Lagos or ever expensive Abuja. Are you married or planning your wedding? Here are beautiful getaways to consider...all in Mexico. Think you can't afford these?....Contact me (LOL) Natural Looking Front View Wow Palm Front Breath-taking View of the Swimming pool Sweet sweet room... Romantic Bathroom Exquisite Dinning Out wit your worries and relax... Eat the CasaSandra way... Unforgettable... More still to come...Stay glued.

Yet Another Laugh

A store that sells husbands has just opened in New York City , where a woman may go to choose a husband.Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates: Welcome to the Husband Store!! You may visit the store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the attributes of the men increase as the Shopper ascends the flights. There is, however, a catch... you may choose any man from a particular floor, or you may choose to go up floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building! Happy Shopping!!! So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband... Floor 1: These men have jobs and love the Lord. Floor 2: These men have jobs, love the Lord, and like kids. Floor 3: These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids and are extremely good looking. 'Wow,' she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going. She goes to the fourth floor and sign reads: Floor 4: These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop-dead good looking ...

Laugh Out Loud!!!

A friend forwarded this to me…It’s very funny, that’s why I’m sharing it here. Is this how it should be??? In the world of romance, one single rule applies to the men: Make the woman happy. Do something she likes and you get points. Do something she dislikes and points are subtracted. You don't get any points for doing something she expects. Sorry, that's the way the game is played. Here is a guide to the point system: Simple Duties 1. You make the bed (+1) 2. You make the bed, but forget the decorative pillow (0) 3. You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets (-1) 4. You go out to buy her what she wants (+5) In the rain (+8) But return with Beer (-5) 5. You check out a suspicious noise at night (0) 6. You check out a suspicious noise, and it is nothing (0) 7. You check out a suspicious noise and it is something (+5) 8. You pummel it with iron rod (+10) 9. It's her pet (-50) Social Engagements 1. You stay by her side the entire party (0) 2. You stay by her side ...