Bookee's Thots

I was just wondering...Why can't a lady walk up to a guy that she loves so so dearly and ask him out? Why do ladies have to love and die in silence when all they need to do is just walk up to the one and say 'I love you'? Oh, so a man is the head. Apologies to those that see me as a feminist (Phemnahs - www.phemnahs.blogspot.com ; Bayo Atunwa). I'm not one. I'm just asking out of curiousity. I'm just thinking. What's wrong in a lady being the head of a family (they do it in Ghana)? Just thinking. (I choose not to be that anyway. I want my husband to be the man and not me. I love being pampered, spoilt and I can't get that if I'm the man - Just just thinking). Why should the man be the provider or bread winner, as the case may be? Why should it be the lady who has to please the in-laws and it is the other way round for the guys? I'm just thinking...Share your thoughts and comments.

Ouch! It's really been a busy week. It all started last week Thursday, August 21, when I was busy preparing for Tayo and Daniel's engagement, slated for Friday, August 22. I got to the office very late that day. Thank God my boss was not in town, if not, it would have been 'heaven'. And then on Friday, I didn't go to the office at all... And then this week, I've been busy trying to catch up on all the days I didn't work. So, the work load's been much since Monday. Opps...Thank God it's Friday... We had the engagement in Surulere. It was 'sizzling'. Fun, to say the least. I, really, am happy for Temitayo Ponmile and Daniel Peters...They were both 'beautiful' that day. Hmm. Eyin iyawo o ni mo eni o..Amin. The wedding comes up September 6, 2008. See ya there (LOL). I'm gonna be besting Tayo and so, I'd be very very busy. Try and see me now if u need anything ooo. (Laughs). Ok. Let's think. Love is great and beautiful. You...